I've been enamored with horses for as long as I can remember. Any excuse to go riding at my aunt & uncle's farm, or those cheesy pony rides at festivals, I was there! I had books on horses-anything from breed information to "The Black Stallion" series; I had all of Barbie's horses, and My Little Ponies... When a birthday, or Christmas would come along, and my mom and dad asked me what I'd like for my gift, I almost always said "I want my own horse." Different reasons were given (mostly, we didn't have the room at our house), but it just wasn't feasible. However, I could go to the farm any time I wanted, and ride their horses as much as I'd liked. So, I did. :-)
Fast forward to sometime around my 14th birthday. Mom and Dad call me into their room to talk. "Hey Rae.. Do you still want your own horse?" What? Are you kidding me?? After being told for so long that it wouldn't be possible to have a horse, I'd pretty much given up the idea. "Uh.. Duh! Yeah, I still want a horse!"
It seems that Mom and Dad had talked it over, and they thought I was old enough to take on the responsibility of caring for a horse, and they were going to make it work. So, my birthday present that year would be that we would find the perfect horse for me.
We looked at A LOT of horses. I remember a handful of them, but honestly most of them blurred together. The ones that stick out were:
A Buckskin Quarterhorse named Bo. He was really nice. I can't remember why he didn't work out. I think he was sold to someone else before we could make an offer.
A Paint mare named Penny. I LOVED her. She was flashy and pretty, and cool. but a LITTLE expensive.. so.. that didn't work out.
A black stallion, which I'll mention again in another blog. He was too much for me (and I was NOT comfortable around stallions, because of some bad experiences when I was younger..).
A Paso Fino.. yeah.. way too little for this girl. lol
A National Show Horse that had some gait issues..Nope, not gonna work, either.
Fast forward again into sometime that winter. We were going to check out some more horses this weekend. It was cold, wet and icky! Typical Ohio winter, and the snow was starting to melt a bit.
I can't remember where exactly the first place we went to was located, but they had a red barn. They had a couple of chestnut horses for sale. They were really spirited. I don't know if it was because they were cooped up in the barn all winter and needed to stretch their legs out or what.
Next, we went to a farm just outside of Vermilion. They had this sweet sorrel filly who was almost 2. She was young, and only halter broke. The owners wanted her for cutting or reining, but realized they had too many horses, and only so many butts to put in saddles. So, they had to downsize. My mom talked with the owners, and their daughter took me into their barn to check out the rest of their horses. They had a palomino that was just about ready to have a baby. So, I hung out for a while taking it all in. Then it was time to go.
We checked out one other horse that weekend, but I can't remember anything about it.
At this point, all of the horses are starting to blend together, but those red headed fillies were sticking out in my head. One big problem.. none of them weren't broke to ride. So, I figured the search would continue. A couple nights later..Mom called me into her room. She asked me if I liked the filly from Vermilion, because she thought she'd be a good fit. Plus, we could learn how to REALLY ride together.
So, we made the call to go look at her again the next day and make an offer on her. Admittedly, at that point, I didn't remember her name or anything, but I remember seeing her the second time. It was a COLD Ohio day, and their farm was right along Lake Erie. The owner brought out the little sorrel filly for Mom and I to check out. Her name was Perk, and she was perfect. So, I took her up and down the driveway, and talked to her, and get to know her a bit. We started developing a connection right there. When we came back and we were all talking, and I was still holding the lead rope. Perk was nuzzling against my arm or something, and the owner says "She KNOWS she's YOUR horse." I just smiled. Needless to say.. SOLD!!
(Insert all the girlie squealing you can imagine..) I'VE GOT A HORSE OF MY VERY OWN!
Next stop..I need tack and supplies, because we had SQUAT in that department. Mom and I hit a tack auction and got some awesome deals on a saddle, lunge line, halter, brushes... you name it, we came back with a carload of stuff. Now, we were set for when Perk would arrive at our friend's farm where we'd be boarding her until we got our barn and pasture built.
Once she arrived, I'd go over and visit her and play as much as I could. I'd lunge her to help build her muscles until her legs were strong enough to hold me on her back. About a month after she arrived, I laid across her back to see how she handled the weight, and we continued that for another month until her ankles didn't dip. Mom said she was ready to begin learning to ride. We had a lot of lessons, but overall she was pretty easy to break. She loved to please.
One time we came out to ride and I was in the pasture outside the barn with a couple other horses that were on property while mom was tacking up. Perk could hear me talking to them and would NOT listen to Mom. She could not get the bridle on, because she had her head out of reach trying to figure out what I was doing. So, she yelled out "Rach! Come and get your horse!". I walked in the stall.. put my hand on her nose, and got the bridle on with no problem. "Yep! YOUR horse."
Training wasn't all candy and rainbows.. You see.. Perk lived up to her name.. Miss Perkocious Bar. She was definitely precocious..and did I mention she's a red-head? She's extremely smart and has some personality..and when she doesn't want to do something.. she DOES NOT WANT TO DO IT. We had some um..discussions.. about walking water.. We have video of me trying to take her into a creek..and she tried to push me in.. I remember lunging her one time, and she didn't want to listen... you know.. the tail flicking, head tossing tantrums? It ended with her biting my arm and she got popped in the nose. She hasn't bitten anyone since.
One of my favorite memories of riding her while we were boarding at the farm was sitting on her back and eating mulberries right off the tree. She was even eating them, too.
Finally, we got our place set up to have horses. So, we wouldn't have to drive somewhere to ride. We have a barn with stalls (complete with name plates on the doors-thanks to one of my grampas) and a pastures. Oh! and Perk would have a pasture buddy, too! Mom found a 17 year old Palomino gelding named Shiloh (I'll talk more about him in another blog). Now we can go riding together! Our neighbor with a dairy farm had a great field with hills and stuff that was perfect. Life was good.
Fast forward to fall of my freshman year of high school. We'd had Perk and Shiloh at the house for a couple months. Mom and I had just gotten back from a ride and were putzing around in the back yard and we decided to play pony tag. She tags me and takes off with Shiloh into the paddock and then the pasture. I followed.
However, when I took the right turn into the pasture, Perk took the corner through the gate too close. There was less than 6 inches between the gate and her saddle.. not including my knee. KA-POW!! The side of my knee rammed the hinge of the gate while we were going through (I can't remember if I was cantering or trotting). OH MY GOD, the PAIN. I couldn't scream, because I didn't want to spook my green horse. So, I brought her to a stop as I'm going "Oh CRAP, OW OW .. This HURTS, OW!!" (Oh yeah, I also wouldn't cuss in front of my parents either at that time.. lol)
Mom jumps off Shiloh to see if I'm okay. Dad and Tom run from the back porch to help me. They heard the crack from the house. Tom was ready to take me to the hospital..my leg has to be broken. I'm leaning over Perk's neck, trying to figure out how the heck I'm going get off of her while my leg is on fire. Someone helps me slowly to the ground and up to the house. I'm walking, so my leg probably isn't broken. No need to go to the hospital. Ice Pack and elevation time. I don't remember who put her away. I look down at my leg. My new jeans are toast-ripped from the shin to my thigh. Underneath, my leg is turning PURPLE by the second. The gate I went through.. yeah.. it's toast, too. I BENT the METAL hinge, and it won't close now.
I had the bruises for a month.. It took me a couple weeks to get back in the saddle, but I did. Unfortunately, I've never gotten the feeling back in the side of my knee. To this day, I have a numb spot the size of a softball, and periodic problems with the lymph glands in that leg.
One summer, my cousin stayed with us because she had a job close to where we live, and she brought her 1/2Arab-1/2Thoroughbred/morgan cross to be trained and learn some manners. Perk and I love to go running in the fields, and play, and Mom and I have raced each other.. My cousin starts to brag about how fast her horse is. I've seen Perk run in the pasture, and I know that she's pretty fast too. I've been racing against the "old man".. and Kelly is about the same age as Perk. So, one day while we're riding, we decide that we're going to race down
the field that's next to the house and see who's faster. It had a perfect, flat straight away that's about 300 yards long.
So, we race.. Kelly and Sue pull ahead at first, and I tell Perk to get him. ZOOM! I had never felt Perk go this fast before. She likes to race.. she also doesn't like to be behind..Yeah, we won! (happy dance) Woo hooo! Of course, this is also the time that I figured out that she could turn on a dime at speed (remember the cutting and reining that her previous owners had planned for her?). At the end of the straightaway, I must have put my left leg on her (we had been working on legging), and she took a 90 degree left turn RIGHT then. I got a quick lesson in physics that day. Had I not held onto her neck, I would've kept going straight while she turned.
Besides the accident (which was NOT her fault), Perk has become an amazing horse. We have had a blast together. Anytime we have a
new rider come for a visit, we put them on Perk, because she'll take
good care of them. She's awesome. My dad-who doesn't ride, but he loves the horses just the same-has ridden her a couple times, too. She can be as mellow as you want, or
kick it up a notch or two for people who know what they're doing.
She'd also become of my best friends and my confidante. I've told her plenty secrets.. cried in her neck when my heart's been broken..she's always been there. She's always had my back. She knows when people aren't good for you and she'll let you know.
I had a boyfriend for a long time that NOBODY (friends, family..nobody) liked. I brought him home one time, and we went riding. He had never been on a horse, so he went on Perk. He liked to show off-even if he didn't know what he was doing, was comfortable on her so he decided to go faster and canter. I tried to warn him that she was going through a phase where she liked to buck a little when she went into a canter.. he wouldn't listen. So, after a couple of seconds of cantering.. she put her head down. gave a little hop and off he went.. right smack dab in the middle of a fresh pile of poo. The running joke now is that not only did my friends and family not like this guy... neither did my HORSE!
As I've gotten older, I haven't been able to see and ride her as much as I've liked. First, I went away to college and would come home a couple times a semester.. Then I wound up moving away and getting married. While I've been gone, she's been a lesson horse, and she had a baby, who looks like a carbon copy of her, named Risco (named after his grand Sire Risco Perk). She's never forgotten me, and my mom says that everytime she sees a blonde girl she perks up wondering if it's me. I saw her a year ago after being gone for 6 years, and she nickered at me asking where I've been.
Perk is now 22 years old, and living with my parents in North Carolina. I miss her a lot. Now that I've gotten settled and have some connections of a place to stay, she will eventually be coming to live out the rest her years with me in Texas, but only after she's done helping my mom train her new young horses.